Romance in the Work Place

" Recent Letterman scandal that everybody's talking about a lot of people are wondering where you should draw the line when it comes -- place romance so here to help break it all down -- celebrity relationship expert. And psychologist doctor Nancy Marie Cooper welcomed this -- hair he's a lot going on with this particular topic mastic keeps us busy but the big deal here is celebrities vs real people there's there's a difference in how that the Tamil."

" Amber -- everybody -- well celebrities are used to feeling very important and they used to having a lot of attention. And so they're much more susceptible to an affair or relationship outside their primary relationship because of that nature of celebrity -- So they're more at risk that's kind of a set up for them to -- to be taken nine care much more easily doesn't excuse it. And I think we're starting to see that right now. The -- in light of the current situation with David Letterman. He's not -- began -- it's not and in an alliance. Typically don't cannot -- even -- harsher and it is no right harsher. And a lot of I think a lot of businesses really want to keep the business rolling keep things moving I am sure that that's exactly with the network wants to do. They want to keep things going smoothly but at the same time they don't wanna ignore the situation. Because what they do -- David Letterman is gonna set the bar attack because he's not the only one and he will be different animal outlast the -- got the first -- at Ari there's a lot of negative effects when it comes to office romance let's go up and down a couple of the points -- one of the things you see -- there's an increased risk in about two months. Disclosure right. -- too much disclosure because their lives -- to public. And -- celebrities really enjoy the publicity others do not and in this case he's not gonna be able to manage trying to mend his marriage in a quiet sort away. The way somebody perhaps an office situation and an off the situation you might be revealing sensitive company information to one another -- right there -- yes it is it is -- also you blur the lines you distracting environment and also affects the other employees. Very much says it jealousy because they assume you're getting things that they're not because you're having a relationship with the -- that you're getting a promotion or just more attention or just more inside information right. Imagine having that you talked about this a little bit earlier but. Proximity is a big issue especially for celebrities are constantly on the set with them all the time you're talking about a lot more than you would normally you just had casual encounter. Technically she got the same with people in the office soprano because -- usually well not in David -- case that most celebrities are acting out scenes. With care -- co hosts in there and there -- and I relationships become much more elevated. And because the relationship that they plant on the screen is very romantic it's much more romantic than what happened -- real life. But whether you're playing -- the scene or whether -- off the set with the with the same star for the same kind of stark you're really are developing -- different kind of relationship. And if you're even -- some really solid if not a really stable person with a stable relationship it's very easy. Ticket -- get carried away hasn't armoire where slots even Letterman had to handle his particular situation very publicly but let's say you are in the office and some guy or girl that's good look -- you like them you have chemistry. What's supposed to happen are you supposed to say no relationship until one of us leaves just one person quit their job how do you handle you have to decide based on the fact that rules cause repercussions if I had. If you break a world is gonna be repercussions you're gonna be mood of a different department. They're gonna be quietly moved to another organization -- find you a job somewhere else. Where they'll just separate -- find -- way to separate you from that relationship because it doesn't care. With that running that this is figure out it's all worth it to me show you around thanks and I hear the debate."