True Communication

" You guys step out of the shadow and into the spotlight this year communication expert and -- speak at Sadr are Robin catchers here is gonna help us out. -- got some great tips that are gonna take you from shot to shining. In time phrase that's pretty interesting thinking -- just talked to one another they -- still no matter how long expended so when of the number one fears even even above -- Which is kind of really aren't yet. If people are more afraid of speaking in public and they aren't about dying because of the impression that they feel they're gonna -- yet is it's is the impression it's the vulnerability it's that feeling of being so vulnerable and feeling like somebody's gonna just take their soul and they're going to be you know. It is almost like dying right for the -- exposed to help people out you're one of the things you say is when you walk into a room with do with confidence because of the little common expressions of fat."

" can actually yet they've people form -- impression about even two seconds meaning you know how quickly that it is and within that two seconds is like in the one that really scary statistics. Is it people Foreman negative first impression of you it can take up to twelve visits to undo that negative first. So it's really important to make their first impression really strong really and standing up straight as one -- TSA is one of -- and -- a lot of people have that whole thing is like standing up straight -- you don't wanna stand up so straight. He looks stiff an army found. I always want to you when you -- anyone to have your weight slightly forward. And when you're -- you also shut your weight slightly forward your heart -- coming towards the other person when you're slightly forward it gives you the impression he gives. Viewers the impression that you can move that you're ready to move -- you flexible sometimes that we stand up two straight -- appear inflexible. And that's not good either interest --"

" Someone -- backwards so there's there's gotta present every night out and update that command of your voice how bad affects the way that people perceive you when you walk into their employees as the second most important part of that communication. Visual his first that's still at 55% of the communications visual. 38% of it. Communication is welcome. So with the sound of your voice is extremely important weather has intonation. And whether it's lower pitched unfortunately ladies who have that higher pitched voice are not taken as seriously as the ones he can pick -- voices down. And that's all about -- being an exercise to really strengthen the diaphragm muscles that you can get from here to get them here rather than -- here who don't. Agreements and you've been taken so much more seriously just because of the -- exactly admitted it's it's really funny and and it's not funny actually but there are times -- meetings and I'll have something to say. And all I have to do is open my mouth and use my diaphragm and say excuse me. And people stop talking and listened to me and it really works and people will take in way what I have to say a lot. More than what other people may had to say simply because of the way and it's also have a good thing the -- speaking. I'm not speaking sorry should be stopped doing all please this week. Coming up but and they don't I -- permanent. Everything is a question and then -- you're saying something really interesting and people even introducing themselves like that kind -- name -- after. Nothing register because that -- my editing sound the same so my it'll be monotonous but then also it's like because the question means that you are unsure. You're not taken as seriously as if you were just saying and going head down at the end of that sentence. -- Learn which is so excellent to look at the person's forehead. People yes I content it's extremely important that I'm looking at your forehead which I'm doing right now you don't know them not looking what is right yeah have a huge -- yeah. It looked up and -- But a -- right about your eyes to look at the forehead and you did you then you're not affected by the I because eyes are the wind is this'll. So if you're really looking at somebody's eyes you were gonna be more intimidated they've hidden -- their foreheads immigrant now -- this -- his music has so much -- have you here might play."