True Communication

" You guys step out of the shadow and into the spotlight this year communication expert and owner speak at -- our Robin actors here is gonna help us out. Brother got some great tips that are gonna take you from shy to shining. In times like that phrase -- that's pretty interesting thank you might have to talk to one another or are still."

" No matter how long it's been it's of one of the number one fears even even above -- which is kind of really -- if people are more afraid of speaking in public and they aren't. About dying is because of the impression that they feel they're gonna give up yet is it's is the impression it's the vulnerability it's that feeling of being so vulnerable and feeling like somebody's gonna just take their soul and they're going to be you know if it's almost like -- the -- exposed to help people out you're one of the things you say is when you walk into our room. With do with confidence because it was common expressions of fat and actually have yet they've people form an impression about even two seconds meaning you know how quickly that it is. And within that two seconds is like in the when the really scary statistics. Is it people Foreman negative first impression of you it can take up to twelve visits to undo that negative first. So it's really important to make their first impression really strong really and standing up straight as when -- TSA is one of the text and -- a lot of people have that whole thing is like standing up straight defended you don't wanna stand up so straight. The looks stiff and army found. I always want to it when you're standing when you have your weight slightly forward. And when you're -- you also shut your weight slightly forward your heart centers coming towards the other person. When you're slightly forward it gives you the impression he gives. Viewers the impression that you can move that you're ready to move -- you flexible sometimes that we stand up to straight people appear in flexible and that's not that I either interest. An announcement went up. Yeah weren't so there's there's gotta present every night out I. Update that command of your voice how bad affects the way that people perceive you when you walk into urban voices a second most important part of that communication. Visual list first that still at 55% of the communications visual. 38% of this communication is local. So with the sound of your voice is extremely important whether it has intonation. And whether it's lower pitch and fortunately ladies who have that higher pitched voice are not taken as seriously as the ones he can -- their voices down. And that's all about greed being an exercise to really strengthen the diaphragm muscles that you can get from here to get them here rather than here who don't. Agreements and that you've been taken so much more seriously just because of the -- exactly admitted it's it's really funny and and it's not funny actually but there are times at meetings and I'll have something to say. And all I have to do is open my mouth and use my diaphragm and say excuse me and people stop talking and listen to me. And it really works and people will take in way what I have to say a lot. More than what other people may have -- say simply because of the way that I say he also have a good thing the call and speaking. Is up speaking sorry should be stopped doing all pleased it."

" The kind of -- and they don't do any permanent. Everything is a question and then you're you're saying something really interesting and people even introducing themselves like that hi my name is -- after."

" Nothing register because that prison -- the -- on the same so my it'll be monotonous but then also it's like because the question means that you are unsure. You're not taken as seriously as if you were just saying and going down at the end of that sentence before we got one thing to do have and I love to us that people say all the time if you're nervous imagine people in their underwear and you say please stop doing that is -- isn't even doing instead this year at two things like when you face to face what I hate. Learn which is so -- is to look at the person's forehead. People yes I Condit is extremely important but if I'm looking at your forehead which I'm doing right now you don't know that not looking what is right yeah the huge -- yeah. And above -- right -- your eyes to look at the forehead and you did you then you're not affected by the I because eyes are the wind is this'll. So you're really looking at somebody's eyes you're gonna be more intimidated that he wouldn't attempt forehead government announced this -- his -- they have so much running yeah have you here my pleasure."