Romance in the Work Place

" Recent Letterman scandal that everybody's talking about a lot of people are wondering where you should draw the line when it comes off this place romance so here to help break it all down press's celebrity relationship expect. And psychologist doctor Nancy -- welcome to the sound to be here -- a lot going on with this particular topic may yes it keeps us busy but the big deal here is celebrity's vs real people there's there's a difference in how that the Tamil with amber."

" Is everybody so well celebrities are used to feeling very important and they used to having a lot of attention. And so they're much more susceptible to an affair or relationship outside of their primary relationship because of that nature of celebrity itself. So they're more at risk this kind of a set up for them to have to be taken -- nine fare much more easily doesn't excuse it and I think we're starting to see that right now. That. In light of the current situation with David Letterman he's not -- began he's."

" Not an alliance. Typically don't cannot TVV slot harsher it is little harsher. And a lot of I think a lot of businesses really want to keep the business rolling keep things moving and sure that that's exactly with the network wants to do. They wanna keep things going smoothly that at the same time they don't wanna ignore the situation. Because what they do that David Letterman is gonna set the bar -- now because he's not the only one and he will be different animal outlast the other not the first -- the last all right there's a lot of negative effects when it comes to office romance and let's go up and down a couple of the points -- one of the things you see is there's an increased risk in about two months. Disclosure right. At two amongst disclosure because their lives or to public. And some celebrities really enjoy the publicity others -- night and in this case he's not gonna be able to manage trying to mend his marriage in a quiet sort of the way. The way somebody perhaps an office situations and an off the situation you might be revealing sensitive company information to one another that's good right there -- yes it is it is are also -- the lines you distracting environment and also affects the other -- very much says -- jealousy because they assume you're getting things that they're not because you're having a relationship with the -- That you're getting a promotion or just more attention or just more inside information right hash having that you talked about this a little bit earlier -- Proximity is a big issue especially for celebrities are constantly on the set with them all the time you're talking about a lot more than you would. Normally you just have casual encounter is likely to back the same with people in the office well no because usually well not."

" And David Letterman's case that most celebrities are acting I'll have scenes. With hair co hosts and their and their real -- relationships become much more elevated. And because the relationship that they plan on the screen is very romantic it's much more romantic than what happens in real life yeah. But whether you're playing Al Pacino or whether your office have with -- with the same star for the same kind of stark you're really are developing a different kind of relationship. And if you're -- it's a really solid it's another really stable person with a stable relationship it's very easy. Ticket taken an end to get carried away has a dorm mark."

" Where slots even Letterman had to handle his particular situation very publicly but let's say you are in the office yeah so a guy or girl that's good look -- you like them you have chemistry. What's supposed to happen are you supposed to say no relationship until one of us leaves just one person quit their job how do you handle you have to decide based on the fact that rules cause repercussions just look at. If you break a world is gonna be repercussions you're gonna be mood of a different department. They're gonna be quietly moved to another organization -- find you a job somewhere else. Or they'll just to separate -- find a way to separate you from that relationship because it doesn't care. With the running that this is figure out -- it's all worth it to me show you around thanks and I hear it could be here."