It’s been a while since I blogged about my miniature schnauzer, Violet Annabelle Rose Von Schnorkenheimer, and now that she’s 18 months, fully grown and 12 lbs, I can undoubtedly say she is a teenager.

All children eventually grow up and Violet is no exception. She is smart, well educated, travels and enjoys both the city and country life. But along with all this style and sophistication she has one not-so-refined habit. (Well, two if you count her barking.)

No one would suspect this odd new trait. The fact remains, even once you learn what it is, to look at her one would say she has become quite a regal and refined lady. With her designer Hermes collar, string of fresh water pearls, distinct brown eyes and nose, and happy, affectionate demeanor she often stops people in their tacks, as everyone wants to know what kind of breed she is. In spite of her light taupe color, Violet’s belly still reflects her signature brown markings that I fell in love with. My once little baby girl has become a wonderful lovable pet that I proudly—and often—refer to as my daughter.

That said, pets, a lot like children, sometimes do things that can mortify us, yet still be some how cute and funny. With so many friends visiting this summer, Miss “V” (as so many like to call her) is used to having other people around. She’s developed a fondness for jumping into bed with any of my overnight guests. Yes that’s right, she loves to enter the guestrooms in the middle of the night and sneak a snuggle/hug for a couple of hours. If the door is not completely closed she will push it open by getting a running start. Cute right? But although some people wouldn’t like that, this is still not the unrefined habit I teased. It gets even better.

Last weekend this cute bed-hopping trick was trumped by a new, even more “entertaining” one: opening the bathroom door. My friend, who shall remain nameless, went to the powder room and just at the right moment and without any warning Violet pushed the door open and jumped on her lap. With the door wide open for all to see she began screaming from honor and embarrassment. I quickly came to the rescue to close the door. A week later, while Violet and I visited a friend in town, she once again made a bee line to the bathroom door. I yelled, “Quick…shut the door” too late, as another victim was claimed. I can tell you—more doors will be fully shut in the future, that’s for sure!

As a child we are contently reminded and encourage to take naps, but as we get older those encouragements and allowances disappear, and napping becomes a luxury rather than a routine. So I’m here to say, “Take back the afternoon nap.” Upgrade the nostalgic experience in a hammock. Just mentioning the word “hammock” brings a feeling of relaxation over my body—you, too, I’ll bet.

I told myself, when I was planning my garden over a decade ago, that no matter what my design esthetics would be for my garden I needed a space where I could rest and enjoy the beauty of the gardens. This would come in the way of a hammock, of course that today cleverly hangs between the garden studio and the hemlock tree. Placed perfectly in a shaded area, here I can rest my eyes, glimpsing the beauty of the garden as I dose off to la la land. Birds chirp, fountains splash, all while I am tucked away—and away from all wireless connections.

Combined with the breeze and the gentle sway, it’s like Mother Nature is rocking me in her arms. I always doze off quickly to a relaxing deep, deep sleep. This is heaven to me. When I finally arrive to this oasis state, you can be sure I will be out for an hour or two, unconscious with a “do not disturb” bubble above my head.

So this SumMAR the essential “to do” is getting out, owning your very own hammock, and literally hanging out. It’s a good thing, and allowing yourself to take time and enjoy a good nap will refresh and energize you. Don’t even try to go those larger “two man” hammocks to share the experience with another—unless that other is the 4-legged kind. (As you can see, Violet sure loves to snuggle up with me out here.) It’s quite alright to let this be your experience, and yours alone to saver. This is the one time it’s okay to be a single swinger and proud of it. I know I am.

“The Housewives of New Jersey” Dina Manzo stepped out for the national pet product showcase at the InterContinental New York Barclay Hotel. I caught up with the reality star who was shopping for her two cats and newly adopted puppy. On display, were travel pet accessories, rocker dog clothes, organic cat treats and even $3,000 diamond collars for your pet. Manzo told me she treats her animals like they are her children, with all that’s out there for pets, it could cost you a mini fortune.

P.S. I love my plaid kensie top, thanks to Lord and Taylor!

This week I interviewed a local farmer for Better TV. Her name: Judy Morris, the owner of Coop D’etat — your go-to “chick with chicks.” Judy also happens to work for Martha Stewart as a special project producer, and she invited me to her farm to experience the world of farm living. But don’t let this farm life fool you, as Judy also happens to be an Emmy award winning producer, too. I can say I held an Emmy today, and one day I hope to have my own.

So how did Judy’s love of farming come about? Seventeen years ago Judy found great inspiration from Martha herself, who introduced her to the world of backyard chickens during a photo shoot. Keeping chickens is a lifestyle that one can only understand once one experiences it for oneself. So I wanted to find out more. Judy told me that converting her old pony barn on her property was the best thing she could do for not only herself but for her family.

I was hooked the moment I arrived and after I held a four-week-old chick in my hand. I mean, who doesn’t think they’re adorable? I learned that as they get older they apparently can even help around the house: not only do they provide us with a high protein food, they are a natural pesticide, tillers of your garden and amazing lawn fertilizers. Chickens offer compost that is nitrogen-rich, so their manure does amazing things to a backyard vegetable garden. And let’s not forget they offer hours of entertainment for the kids and adults.

The domesticated chicken has been laying eggs for thousands of years, and most lay an egg every 25 hours. Egg color and sizes may vary depending upon your chicken selection—and their diet. There are so many varieties of chicken to select from, but regardless which type you choose, owning chickens forces you to appreciate not only the food chain but the role these chickens play. In short, one learns not to take things for granted. Today, Judy shares her passion with Martha, and from time to time they “talk chickens,” sharing their love for these animals that are here to serve.

Not long ago I was lucky enough to have Judy provide me with a dozen fresh eggs, and I found them to be delicious—creamy in texture with a bright orange yolk. I would learn later that the Grade A eggs that I buy at my local market are already about 30 days old by the time they arrive in the stores. What a bonus to have them available in your own yard!

At Judy’s, the combination of the cutest vegetable garden ever, the sheep, the alpacas and the chickens all made me feel as though I was transported to a rural farm, far way, possibly even in another time. At Judy’s, a working farm is sacred and respected, and harvesting and living off the land is a way of life. As a wife, a mother and a part-time producer, Judy Morris opened a window to a world of chickens that surprising enough is attainable to all. I had no idea that tending to chickens could be so easy and fun.

So which do you think felt better in my hand: the adorable baby chick or the Emmy? I have to admit that I was momentarily tempted to want both. Visiting Judy is a casual experience that leaves you pondering “Why don’t I have chickens?” The answer may surprise you—when you walk away you just may find yourself saying “I can!”

This morning I awoke early, and as it was such a glorious day I took a stroll in the yard to take in the fresh, cool air and pay homage to all that is beautiful in the garden. Feeling extremely refreshed and—unlike other mornings when I find myself juggling both a camera and a Starbucks coffee—I was enjoying the “Hands Free” benefit of being able to touch while I walked. This morning was also the end of a successful work week and the debut of the July 4th weekend. I was in good spirits while taking in Rosebrook Gardens’ eye candy.

As I wandered through the side garden my eyes took delight in touching upon every small detail. The water drops from the irrigation system’s early morning watering schedule reflected the soft morning sun; on the hydrangea’s leaves they even captured the reflection of the delicate pink dahlia flowers above. I could hear the birds chirping, the bee’s buzzing and the schnauzer shnuffling over the pebbles under the pergola. The soft morning breeze was especially crisp and clean, and my lungs embraced the cool morning air like fuel for my long day ahead. I was barefoot and in my pajamas, yet my poor attire did not matter to my garden as my dedication to it allows me to wander the property regardless what I may wear. I look like hell, but I’m pardoned.

I took a moment to pause and spiritually connect to my home and life’s entire blessing; this is an honor that I do not hold lightly. That said, I turned to my back garden patio area and looked up towards the trees, their lush, dense leaves casting shade on the teak chaise longue chairs. I continued my way to the armillary outside my kitchen’s seating area window. At that very moment, a large female robin from the adjacent tree flew over and landed on top of it. I said “Well hello,” and rather than flying off, startled, she turned and looked right at me, as if she had something to say. I stood there. “You look so beautiful. What are you doing this morning?” She continued to look at me. “Are you here to tell me something?” She continued to stare. Remarkable, as she was within touching distance, and out in the open. I took a moment to think about how moments like these—connecting to nature in such a pure and spontaneous way—is the greatest gift of all for a gardener such as myself. I was amazed by this bird and needed to enjoy this treat for as long as I could.

Violet came around, wondering who I was talking to, so I picked her up, expecting for sure that the robin would fly away. Nope. I introduce Miss Violet to “Lady Bird Robin”—the name I quickly came up with. She proudly stood taller, acknowledged the introduction, and in a regal, proud way continued to watch us closely. Violet, too, was in awe—or just strategizing how to snatch her next meal? I said “Goodbye! Come again.” After our farewell I placed Violet down on the walkway and turned to continue my morning stroll. As I looked back the robin took flight, as if she, too, needed to report back on this MARvellous encounter. Maybe—just maybe—she, too, was in awe.

Find more great stories about Mar at www.marjennings.com

Oh look at the baby kitty!  Sure there’s Rhiannon, Lesley and guest Dr. Katrina Warren from Animal Planet’s “Housecat Housecall” in studio, but really the kitty is picture perfect, isn’t he adorable? We got great advice on caring for your kitten from the new reality tv host, Dr. Warren, who is a veterinarian from Sydney. She stopped into our studio before taking her long flight back home overseas. The Dr. is also a Purina cat chow mentor and any questions you have about cats can be asked at www.kittenchow.com. If you’d like to adopt a kitty go to www.animalhavenshelter.org.

P.S. Thanks to Lord & Taylor for keeping us looking great!

Last weekend I had the pleasure to be a guest speaker for the Theatre of New Canaan’s Spring Awakening benefit at Le Beau Chateau, in New Canaan, Connecticut. The room was full of fabulous table-top designs by notable interior designers. The designs were inspired by popular Broadway shows such as “A Secret Garden,” “Jekyll & Hyde,” “Peter Pan,” “Phantom of the Opera” and “A Little Night Music.” These unusual tabletops offered a unique and inspirational environment for my lecture. I was also excited to work so close to home so I gave my assistant the day off and invited good friend Barbara, who was in town for the weekend.

My seersucker suit and spectator shoes were no match for Barbara’s heavenly white ensemble complete with a hint of magical sparkle and six-inch Michael Kors platform sandals. We made a good looking couple so we grabbed Miss Violet and off we went on a family road trip to New Canaan for the afternoon.

It’s been nearly 60 years since the chateau opened its doors to the public. So, I was very excited to arrive early and take a walk through and experience a touch of France. Situated on 52 acres and bought by Huguette Clark in 1952, it has sat unfurnished and unoccupied since then. Built in 1937 in French manor style, it is complete with a grand staircase, tall ceilings and multiple fireplaces. And now with my passport renewed, what better way to kick-start my European holiday tomorrow.

We arrived early to see the vignettes and decided to have some lunch on the patio where there is a delightful bistro menu. As we sat down, a woman next to us asked, “Are you Mar Jennings? Yes,” I replied. Then she proceeded to tell me how much she loved my book and how it helped her during a difficult time in her life. “Your book saved my life– the photos and your writing got me through it all. Your passion and love for gardening has changed my life.” I got up and gave her a big kiss and told her how touched I was.

Truth be told, Life On Mar’s, A Four Season Garden was dedicated to Edward R. Smith, my mentor and devoted friend, whose encouragement and wisdom, helped secure my life’s foundation. So if I can, in any way, help others find that same love and passion along the way, well then, my “guardian angel” has made another dream of mine come true.
We ended the event with lots of press photos and a book signing but my mind continued to wander back to that amazing woman on the patio. It wasn’t long ago, when I too, was touched profoundly by someone. Now, years later, if I can do the same–well then I have truly been “touched by an angel”.

Catch up with Mar–read more at www.marjennings.com

It’s cold outside and thank goodness I have my Violet to cuddle up and sit on my lap to keep me warm. She’s better than a blanket, in fact right now while working on the computer writing this blog she is fast asleep on my lap this close to me at all times, offering me some extra heat and well-deserved schnauzer love.

That said, the sprinkle of snow today reminds me of winters past, and that’s there’s work to be done. Yes, with February just around the corner I’ve already had my trees trimmed and all holiday representations removed. Just a rule I keep, that everything needs to be gone come Jan 15th. Now that that is done, I can begin to review my collection of gardening design books and get inspired during these cold days in Connecticut. I also find myself in the garden studio, playing in the dirt as it were, creating fabulous spring-inspired arrangements to display as a mind trick that spring has arrived in my home. Truth be told, with spring still 50 days away my abundance of vessels are filled with daffodils, hyacinths and crocuses. Lush green textures and fragrances helps hold me over until then.

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Wow, December is here and today I realize Violet’s birthday is on the12th, and she will celebrate her first birthday. She’s a big girl now, fully trained, filled with personally and a collection of fabulous sweaters and rhinestone necklaces. Where has the time gone? It seems as if it was only yesterday when I brought the little bundle of joy home, one that would heal my heart and give me unconditional love and kisses.
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Stars on four legs and two turned it out last night for the dogcademy gala to benefit the North Shore Animal League at Cipriani’s on Wall Street. The green carpet was laid out, grand dog and cat sculptures lined the gorgeous ballroom.

Beth Stern, who is the North Shore Animal League spokesperson and huge dog lover, left her bulldog Bianca at home and brought along husband Howard Stern.

Beth’s dress was also being auctioned off to raise money. Howard was keeping his Tom Ford outfit. He loved Lauren’s vintage Thierry Mugler. Howard talked about Rosie O’Donnell jumping on the Sirius bandwagon, and that it was a good thing to have a place she can say whatever she wanted.

Fashion designers lent their touch to the evening donating dog collars they designed. From Issac Mizrarahi, to Betsey Johnson and even Christie Brinkley. You have a chance to buy one of these fabulous collars at CharityBUZZ and of course it all goes to a great cause!

Along with chatting with Beth and Howard Stern, Lauren was on the green carpet where she caught up Diane Neal from Law & Order, Ron Dipierto, the hunky Islanders goalie, singer Diane Birch, and gala host, Geraldo Rivera.

Catch Lauren’s gala coverage November 17th on Better in your market and on our site!